Customer Reviews
A stand alone spin off of SATC - By: Jessica Simpson, 20 Jun 2008 
In all honesty I bought this book after reading a newspaper article about the TV show Sex & the City where this book was quoted from. I really enjoyed the SATC episode that coined the phrase "He's just not that into you" & wanted to see what else the writer had to say on the subject.
I have read some of the reviews & I agree with some of the people that state this is not the "Bible" on relationships & does not really cover those more serious & involved relationships, but's it not a one star book. It does exactly what it says on the tin. It gives a wide variety of the scenarios where a woman should really know better & cut her losses & get on with her life.
I found this book made me laugh at both the menin the scenarios & myself when I realised that I had beenin several of the same situations before. I was single when I read this so I wasn't really using this a self help book or a guide to getting out of a bad relationship, however if there's one thing every woman should take from it - If he doesn't call you back, it's not personal, it's not the end of the world, he's just not that into you. If you think about, if you were compatible with every onein the world life would be a very dull place...
It's the self help book for those women who are not looking for a self help book. Even if you take nothing from it - it has some amusing parts to it & is writtenin a very comical style.
Hmm... mixed feelings - By: Caroline Smith, 06 Jun 2008 
My friend lent me a copy of this book - she thought I needed it because I was contemplating asking a guy out. I wasn't convinced.
And I'm still not.
Although a lot of what the book has to say about "not that into you" clues early onin a relationship is fairly reasonable, I think it's pretty rubbish once you get further down the path. For instance, the example where a woman is happily settled with a guy who previously got messily divorced but is reluctant to get married again... Greg all but suggests she dump him. Uh, no! I got angrier & angrier as I got further & furtherin to the book. The one-size-fits-all approach really isn't appropriatein the real world.
Regardless, I'm going to go & ask that guy out. Greg has annoyed me to the point where I'm going to do it just because I can!
Oh, & the friend that lent it to me? Very, very single...
Found Mr. Right! - By: Colleen Messina, 09 Apr 2008 This book is a must read for all women because it is a time saver! No need to waste precious time on someone who isn't into me. With great humor, this book gives me insight that men are clear with their actions. If someone isn't into me, I no longer have to take it personally.
As Greg & Liz's book has helped me confirm that I'm currently with a wonderful man who is really into me, Ariel & Shya Kane's book "How To Create a Magical Relationship" is helping me maintain a loving & lasting relationship. I suggest reading this book as well if you're interestedin finding Mr. Right.
I love this book - By: Ms. J. Picken, 06 Feb 2008 A friend of mine gave me this book to read when I was having problems understand why my boyfriend was doing the things he was.
It was an eye opener for me & I love it!!
I would recommend that every girl have a copy of this!!!
Eye-opening, an absolute must for any single girl on the dating scene - By: P. Eckles, 11 Jan 2008 OH MY WORD.. girls if you never buy another bookin your life... make sure this is the one that you do. As a single girl on the dating scene I have to say that this book totally opened my eyes to the way guys work. To the girl who wrote the negative review on here... wake up & smell the bullsh*t, you're kidding yourself... these excuses that guys come out with are just that.. EXCUSES, all they are really saying is 'I'm just not that into you' but simply don't have the guts to say it to your face. I have saved myself so much heartache & saved myself so much time waiting by my phone just by reading this book. If a guy doesn't ring you within 3 days of a date, put him out of your mind & move on. If he says 'i've been really busy at work'... move on. These are the kind of excuses that the book addresses, & anyone who contradicts what Greg Behrendt has to say is essentially one of the poor girls who is victim to the rubbish that come's out of guys mouths. A fantastic, amusing read & totally totally liberating!
